are lovely, mostly. Heartfelt and kind and honestly, the specifics of what is written seem to matter far less than the fact that it was written, and that it was shared, with love.  Really the only thing that people say that isn’t landing well (and its ok if you’ve ever said this, of course, or… Continue reading The things people say

I surround myself with old photos and old memories and she is so vibrant, so alive and present in all of them that “was” doesn’t feel quite right.  When I talk about the things my parents have always shared — their house, at a minimum, but also their friends, their community, their way of being… Continue reading Tenses have become so very hard.

I’ve started this temporary little blog to avoid more overflowing instagram captions, honestly, and to have someplace to put and a reason to finish the half-completed thoughts that populate my notes app. In other words: to share, but differently than I have before. ‘Different’ is the key word there, because one of the main things… Continue reading Introduction